about me
I'm Thirteen Nebula; a neurodivergent creator, minimalist overlander, and full-time explorer of both real offroad and digital landscapes. I'm autistic, and have ADHD and Tourette's. I combine storytelling, art, and tech to make things that help people like me feel seen and understood better.
Whether it's a shirt that makes someone laugh or a blog post that sheds light on life with autism, ADHD, and Tourettes, everything I build comes from real experience and a desire to connect with others.
This site is the hub of my creative universe: part notebook, part storefront, part of my brain. Welcome...
journal
The Beautiful Exhaustion: Living with Perfectionism and AuDHD
There's something nobody tells you about being autistic and having ADHD. About having both at the same time, what some of us call AuDHD. They don't tell you that you might spend hours agonizing over a single sentence in an email. That you might restart a project seven times because it doesn't feel right, even though you can't articulate what "right" would look like. That the same brain that loses track of time and forgets to eat can also obsess over microscopic details that no one else will ever notice.
This is perfectionism wrapped in neurodivergence, and it's both my superpower and my kryptonite.
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Where do I begin? My story:
I think the hardest part about starting anything for anyone is simply the ‘getting started’ part. It often feels like that has been the single force stopping me from starting a blog, vlog, or really anything in life. Starting just has always felt so overwhelming for me, where do I begin? I have even been neglecting my social media, and well, really not posting or sharing much of anything in my life.
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